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Harry M. Wilder |
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submitted by: Merryann Palmer |
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HARRY M. WILDER born Feb. 20, 1837 at Pontiac, MI.
Died April 11, 1909, Grand Rapids, Kent Co., MI.
Married: 1. Melinda Thompson, Dryden, Lapeer Co, MI Jan. 15, 1863. 2. Lydia E. Marsh, Big
Rapids, Mecosta, MI. 3. Harriet O. Furman, Arcadia MI. |
Harry was a farmer, and was elected a Road Commissioner of Mecosta
County, as well as other minor offices.
He was a Union soldier and
achieved the rank of Cpl. He was wounded in the war, and was an active
member of the G.A.R.
He had 2 children by his first wife: Donald, b. 31 March 1866, who was immediately given to a neighbor family to raise. Descendants of Donald are still in the county, children and grandchildren of his daughter Lottie, as members of the Tetzlaff family. Grandchildren of his son Lester are all in Kent County, as members of the Ebenstein and Wilson families. An unknown daughter, who was 2-3 years older than Donald, was let out for adoption after the death of her mother.
By his second wife, he had two more children - Del and Deos.
His wife
Lydia was a school teacher in the area. When the boys were young, they
moved to "The Dells", in Oregon. Sometime around 1890, he left his wife
and family returning to Michigan. He applied for a Civil War pension, and
one of the items of interest in his file is a letter from Lydia's lawyer
requesting a widow's pension after his death, and giving the details on
his desertion of her and her children and her subsequent divorce in
absentia from him. We have no further information on these two boys.
His third wife died sometime before he did, aparently in Ionia County, MI.
Harry ended his life in the Veteran's Home in Grand Rapids, Michigan, and is buried in the cemetery there.